Scriptures Reading: Genesis 2:18-24, Ephesians 5:21-33, Genesis 25:19-34
Key Scripture: Genesis 2:18 — “And the LORD God said, it is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
Devotional Reading
A strong man is not a man who refuses to listen, but a man secure enough to listen.
The lessons we learn from Isaac and Rebekah exposes an important family principle.
- Rebekah had information concerning Jacob that Isaac did not appear to know about.
- Isaac did not create a healthy relationship in which his wife was free to communicate what she believed God showed her.
Marriage is not a dictatorship. You are one flesh. If God speaks to your wife about something concerning your family, why should she be afraid to tell you?
When your wife becomes reluctant to express herself to you, something is wrong.
You may think you are protecting your authority, while actually cutting yourself off from information and wisdom that could help your family.
A wife is not merely someone who lives in the house. She is part of the resource God has given you for the assignment of your family. So, listen to her. Give her room to speak.
Do not create such an atmosphere of fear that your wife must keep important things to herself.
The mighty man is not the loudest voice in the house. He is the man secure enough to hear other voices without losing his leadership.
Personal Reflection
- Can my wife freely tell me what she really thinks, feels or believes God is showing her?
- Have my words, anger or controlling behaviour created fear that prevents honest communication in my home?
Life Application
- Have an intentional conversation with your wife today and ask: “Is there anything you have wanted to tell me but have been afraid or uncomfortable to say?”
- Listen without immediately defending yourself or correcting her.
Prayer Points
- Father, give me humility to listen and wisdom to discern what I hear.
- Help me build a home where truth can be spoken freely, respectfully and safely.